Day 105 - Happy Halloween~ Makan trip

Happy Halloween~ 31st of Oct...Here it comes to end of October...

Saturday~ No plan...no party...but got 'makan' trip...

Luckily I still have my gang of MMU friends here...James and Ming Zhi...bring a lot of fun to me and kill my spare time...James is so happy and his stomach is 'balloon-ing' now..including myself...coz his gf Virginia is in Penang here doing her internship, so they can always go out pak toh and seek for more foods in Penang just like what we were doing lastime...We always go out cari makan~ Miss the time ^_^

Today woke up at 8am+ awaken by a miss call from the ONE I'm waiting for~ After a short conversation, I continued my sleep until 10am...Meeting James, Virginia and Ming Zhi at Tesco Extra at 11am, joining the Pentamaster group of people, we go seek for the Penang coconut Jelly at town and have a lunch together at "王昭君酸辣鱼头米粉”Jalan Rangoon ...Will post up the photos soon for the Joez coconut Jelly...It is crystal clear color, different color and taste that I took in Malacca...I prefer the Malacca one~ ^_^

Not sure what's next for the dinner later...gonna stuff my stomach full...

This is what I got from the someone's blog (http://www.gourmetgarden.com.my/?p=2224). TQ

Very good references for all of you who are hunting for food ^_^

View Georgetown Food in a larger map

静思语100句: 005

005站在半路，比走到目标更辛苦

做事要有头有尾,成功是属于坚持到最后一秒的人!

每个人读了这句话,可能会有不同的回应; 而我本身也有自己的看法.

如果我们把事情只做一半,那么就永远没有成功的机会了.

所谓的站在半路,半途而废,就是永远无法了解目的地的美妙,

虽然可能目标达不成,可是我们却可以享受过程,从中学习.

站在半路,不但会让人看不起,而且一无所有,尝受不了成功走到目标的人的满足感.

让我们来一起向目标前进吧! ^@^

Eye laser operation~ Good to know~

WARNING: Might be awful to watch for some people!

Sorry...just a health sharing here~

Thanks to my friend forward this clip to me,

very good exposure for all of us.

Just got to know how the process of Eye laser operation~ enjoy watching~

Day 104 - Friday again~ Day by day~

October gonna ends soon, day by day passing by~ What have I done? Very soon its November's turn...my birthday month is coming~ ^_^

Since yesterday was working hard, finished the job for today~ So, today is really a relax Friday for me, just sitting in front of the laptop and start writing the report.

Wait for breakfast, wait for lunch, then wait for time to home~ That's all...

Lunch at Jalan Tengah...nothing special...then go back office continue the report...

Regarding my conversion, still pending for approval...wah...why take so long...will give me response before 31st DEC?? Still need to wait.... isn't it takes too long time -_- "

No plan for weekend yet...gonna prepare something...anyone celebrating Halloween? I guess NO~ stay at home rest la...Save $$~

静思语100句: 004

004孝顺要及时.行善也要及时

古人云：“树欲静而风不止，子欲养而亲不在”；

每个人都必须领悟这句话里的道理。

有些事情，在可以做的时候，一定要及早做，不要总等以后,

因为以后是个未知数，机会过了，就错过了。

我们要饮水思源，百礼以行孝为先，一定要孝顺父母与长辈。

做善事就更不用说，不必选日子，何时何日，每分每秒都可以做，

最简单的就是永远拥有一颗善良的心去做人，那么人就自然美了！

我曾经是个很自私的人，懒惰与人分享，处处为自己着想，从自己为出发点，

直到我遇见了“她”，是“她“教会我做人要好心，要看开一点，

好心有好报，好事自然会发生的！

谢谢“她”，我很荣幸认识了“她”，拥有“她”，我就感觉拥有了全部。

我好想“她”~

Day 103 - Busy in lab and office~ What a Thursday~

Walao...so busy in lab and office today~ Whole day helping colleague for testing the units in the lab while waiting my sample ready for analysis, but the equipment was down for PM, need to wait again... Then, waited until end of the day, I was supposed to leave and go for my ping pong session, but the equipment was just nice ready to use, so have to stay back and use the equipment, else no more slot for this week and the case is urgent for the analysis results...

sigh...work work work...luckily at least got something rewarding to make my day today...

1st was the Snack party organized by the dept manager to celebrate the successful launch of the product, then everyone get to eat JCo doughnut and some snacks....Nice, so long never take the JCo doughnut, it reminds me how I packed half a dozen from Sunway Pyramid to Penang for my dear as I promised her~

2nd thing was I finally got the response and chat with her...too bad that I was busy in the lab, but at least manage to chat for a moment~ I'm happy enough...She is fine, God blessed...

Just coincidently, if the equipment is down, and I were to lazy and leave the lab for pingpong, then I would missed the chance to chat with her online~ When I think twice, it is worthy... ^_^

Take care~ Believe in ourselves~ God blessed...

靜思语100句: 003

003讲话要温和轻柔.态度要谦诚亲切

这句话很简单，讲就容易，要做到就不容易了，

不管对谁，我们都温和地对待，态度诚恳，那么别人就会很舒服地与我们相处~

尤其是对待你身边的人，最亲近的家人和伴侣，

就更加需要温和和坦诚，让他们对你有一定的信任和可靠度~

在适当的时候说适当的话，善意的谎言也该要在对的时候说出来，以避免更大的误会~

请相信我~ 我是在变，可是对你的心还没变~ ^@^

5 simples rules to be happy

Hope everyone can have a happy life~

Actually there is not rules to live happily, just be simple, be happy~

陈伟联《分手的情书》

没有什么特别意思，只是纯粹地分享一首感人的歌~

聚要吃苦 散要受苦 就看谁更顽固

我闻到你哭 那种温度

寒心得像抚摸 爱的坟墓

想到感情归宿 忘了人情世故

别为仁慈 制造残酷

眼前无路 心中有数

何必继续漫步

你该拥有 更轻易的幸福

谈恋爱不是追逐难度

爱如苗圃 命如蜡烛

沿路烧到光秃

是我自私 放不下同甘共苦

也念不出分手的情书

爱值得付出 也能退出

来时聚成露珠 去若晨雾

感情美的虚无 就当作身外物

不要让它 变成包袱

我本来是 孤独的壁虎

你生来是 掌上明珠

眼前无路 心中有数 何必继续漫步

你该拥有 更轻易的幸福

别为我粉身碎骨

你看 爱如苗圃 命如蜡烛

沿路烧到光秃

是我自私 放不下同甘共苦

也念不出分手的情书

你的付出 该换来更大满足

如果是这样 不如不如。。。

Day 102 - 不要错放了幸福温暖的手~ Miss u~

今天在公司闲着，无所事事，便翻回一些朋友寄来的电邮…… 其中一篇是我读了心里满有感触的文章……“不要错放了幸福温暖的手”

往往许多人在抉择伴侣时，容易东想西想，不知所措，
就是因为害怕一时做错决定，看错人，造成终生的遗憾。

诺贝尔文学奖得主萧伯纳说：此时此刻在地球上，约有两万个人适合当你的人生伴侣，就看你先遇到哪一个，如果在第二个理想伴侣出现之前，你已经跟前一个人发展出相知相惜、互相信赖的深层关系，那后者就会变成你的好朋友，但是若你跟前一个人没有培养出深层关系，感情就容易动摇、变心，直到你与这些理想伴侣候选人的其中一位拥有稳固的深情， 才是幸福的开始，漂泊的结束。

爱上一个人不需要靠努力，只需要靠‘际遇'，是上天的安排，

但是持续地爱一个人就要靠‘努力'……

在爱情的经营中，顺畅运转的要素就是沟通、体谅、包容与自制 (面临诱惑有所自制)。有许多人总是为了‘际遇'所迷惑与苦恼，意念不停、欲念不断、争逐不散，而忘了培养经营感情的能力才是幸福的关键。

所以不要去追问到底谁才是我的Mr.Right，而是问说在眼前的伴侣关系中，我能努力到什么程度、成长到什么程度，若没有培养出经营幸福的能力，就算真的Mr.Right出现在你身边，幸福依然会错过的，而活在犹疑与遗憾当中，这不就是许多‘爱情虚无症'的遭遇与心态吗？

若你此刻已有一位长久相伴的伴侣，不要再随便三心二意地犹疑了，我们往往不易察觉感情中的一个陷阱，就是‘近亲生慢侮'，也就是经济学中的铁律‘边际效益递减法则'，跟你在一起越久的人，就越容易麻木与忽视，而新鲜的'际遇'总是那么动人可爱。

在 感情对待中，难免有摩擦与无心的伤害，而且论得罪自己的次数累加起来最多的人，当然是跟我们在一起最久、最亲近的人。而新欢呢，又还没开始有得罪你的机会，再加上他的刻意讨好，所以新欢怎么看怎么可爱，旧爱怎么看怎么讨厌。但别忘了，新欢身上总是有不确定的未知数，旧爱身上就是有难得的熟悉感、确定感、 信赖感。千万不要随便在偶然的‘际遇'中迷失了自己，错放了幸福温暖的手。

所以萧伯纳的话，是要提醒情人不要太钻牛角尖于寻觅那唯一，应该把精神用在学会经营幸福的能力上，同时也提醒我们‘弱水三千只取一瓢饮'若有幸遇到了难得的伴侣，就不要再三心二意了，因为我们永远不知道一生何时会遇到两万个其中的几个，所以要知福惜福、活在当下。

如果你未婚，那么你将会得到一份意想不到的好姻缘，

如果你已婚，那你的婚姻生活将更幸福、美满。

有缘才能相聚，勉强没有幸福~

爱上一个人不需要靠努力，只需要靠‘际遇'，是上天的安排，

但是持续地爱一个人就要靠‘努力'……努力争取幸福吧！

靜思語100句: 002

002福.來自一顆懂得布施的心

福，是幸福，是每个人都最想拥有的；

要拥有福气就要有一颗慷慨的心，要舍得。

所谓舍得，就是有舍就有得，懂得给于帮忙，自然而然福气就回来~ ^@^

靜思語100句: 001

从今天开始，我会每天分享一句靜思语， 共有100句。每日一句，生活开心点！

　

001心美.看什麼都順眼

世界上，万物与人都无十全十美，只有心理的美可以抵挡所有的缺陷，把事情都看得顺心顺眼!

计较少一点，生活开心点~ ^@^

Day 101 - Got problem? Got solutions~

Day 101...when Ii'm counting on 101, it triggers me this 101 Dalmatians Cute cartoon that I watched during childhood. Haha...very cute and nice~ Happy family with so many puppies~ really a great piece of art from Walt Disney... ^^ I really hope that for what I'm working hard now is worthy to gain a better future for my family...I hope to have a happy family living happily together with my lovely wife and children~

After sharing the cute lovely stuff, I would like to share to all my readers about this quote of the day~ Very good and may motivate some of you that are in the pot of hot water~

Facing PROBLEM?? In TROUBLE??

"If a problem can be solved, no need to worry about it.

If a problem cannot be solved, what is the use of worrying?? "

Feel GOOD? ^@^

Always think positively, act positively, eventually it will turns positive results~

Good luck and all the best~

Review and read this again whenever you're frustrated and feel like give up~

^(@)^ Hope that my post today can cheer U up! ^(@)^

Day 100 - The 100th day~

Wow.. time flies...today is the 100th day I last saw her in Melbourne~ Hope that everything is fine~

This is the photo that I grabbed from Internet and did some modification on it~

Specially for YOU for the 100th day~

Day 99 - Sunday~ Makan Tour around Penang for KL friend~

Wow...another round of 'Makan Tour' with my friends who are labelled as 'Cari Makan Gang' :)

On Saturday night, since my friend just reach Penang at midnight on Friday, so getting busy for his training in the Morning, then rest awhile, then we had dinner together at Saturday night at James Foo Steak house.

Quite nice environment~ Dark and noisy a bit...very good business~

Thanks to James as the tour guide for my friend. I can save my energy driving and just sit behind the car. James Foo western food restaurant is located at Tanjong Tokong, James and Ming Zhi brought me and my KL friend, Kim Yung along. Virginia was having a dinner at Traders Hotel with her Law firm colleagues. That's why we all just heading to town and tour around for food. The James Foo restaurant has quite nice environment and very good business. Their price are reasonable cheap and quality of food is not bad for trying.

This was my Grilled chicken with Black pepper sauce ^^ RM7

Before the western food, James was suggesting me a coconut jelly that is very cooling at nice near the GAMA and Dato Keramat road. Unluckily that the shop was closed at night. The next round after the western food was the prawn mee and ABC ais kacang at "Sa Tiao Lou" (三条路) near the Guang Hua newspaper factory.

Everyone was 80% full stomach, yet we are proceeding for next round to the Kimberly street from "Kuey Chap", again maybe due the 九皇爷诞 season, a lot of shops were closed or rest. So, we ended up eating the Fried Kuey Teow and Tao Fu Fa.

Still, Virginia had not done yet for the ball dinner, so while waiting, we all sat in a Dim Sum restaurant to wait for her call. James brought out his tea leaves 佛手, really nice taste~ We all were 110% full, too full...but since we were sitting in the shop, so I just simply ordered 1 plate of dim sum. Seriously funny, sitting for 1 hour with 1 plate of dim sum and 1 tea pot...All ONLY RM3.20 for 4 person, which means only RM0.80 for each person. The funniest action that we ever done~ ^_^

Sunday morning, I brought my friend to Bayan Baru food court for the Red beans blended, "Ang Tao Ka"...then afternoon Teo Chew Cendol at Penang road, Kim Yung bought some biscuits and nutmeg for his family~ Lunch at New World park...then dinner at Jelutong market~

What an "overloaded" weekend with foods~ Need to start do my sports again to keep fit~ ^@^

Called my 'dear' (in my heart) to ask her condition and studies, hopefully she can cope with it~

Ohsaa...Jia you! You can make it!! All the best~ Take care~ Miss u~

Thoughts for the day~

WILLIAM SHAKESPHERE
Three sentences for getting SUCCESS:
a) know more than others
b) work more than others
c) expect less than others

ALEN STRIKE
Don't compare yourself
with anyone in this
world. If you do so, you
are insulting yourself

BONNIE BLAIR
Winning doesn't always
mean being first,
winning means you're
doing better than you've
done before

THOMAS EDISON
I will not say I've fail
1000 times, I will say
that I discovered there
are 1000 ways that can
cause failure

LEO TOLSTOY
Everyone thinks of
changing the world,
but no one think of
changing himself...

CHARLES
Never break four things
in your life - Trust,
Promise, Relation &
Heart because when they
break they don't make
noise but pains a lot

Looking forward~ 2012 movie in Nov 2009

Release Date: 12 November 2009

Language: English

Running Time: N/A

Director: Roland Emmerich

Cast: Amanda Peet, Chiwetel Ejiofor, Danny Glover, John Cusack

Synopsis: Over the decades, many have prophesised that the world will end when the ancient Mayan calendar ceases on 21 December 2012. But before that occurs, the human race is bound to face natural disasters such as massive volcano eruptions, typhoons and other natural calamities. An academic researcher opens a portal into a parallel universe and makes contact with his double in order to prevent an apocalypse predicted by the ancient Mayans. Enjoy the video clips... ^_^ It should be a very nice and inspiring movie to advice everyone Appreciate the Earth, recycle and keep our mother land stay healthy~ Appreciate our life, live life to the MAX~ Appreciate the time we have, enjoy every moment on the Earth~ and of course Appreciate our loved one, care and give them supports all the time~

Day 98 - Relaxing Saturday~

Yeah..weekend again~

Time to get some rest and do some housekeeping work, so that keep my room clean~

Stay healthy...

My friend from KL all the way drive up to find me, so gonna plan some place for him to tour around Penang~ Jalan-jalan, cari makan~

Nothing special to write today~ Just share out some [Penang night view photos that I captured from my hanphone ^_^ Sorry for the poor pixels~

The view from my 9th floor apartment

The view from my 9th floor apartment, the main Jelutong-Airport highway~

The view from my friend's apartment at 21st floor

The view from my friend's apartment at 21st floor~ Very calm and nice~

Hope that all my readers have a happy weekends~

Qin, study hard, jia you! ^_^

Day 97 - 开心就好~

哎呀，昨晚才初五，就破戒了，跟着朋友出去吃晚餐，没有选择，每一档的大牌档都是有肉的，没有素食……我就只好选择了吃最少肉的Nasi Lemak，就只拿了一堆江鱼籽， 不属于素食的！九皇爷，不好意思了，破戒了~

刚才星期五午餐，我和同事们一伙儿出去外面吃，到了Batu Lanchang 的巴杀大排挡，也是没有素食，结果又吃了印度人的Mee Goreng, 里面参有鱿鱼， 也不属于素食的！持斋计划泡汤了~

回到公司，读读报纸，看见这五颜六色的图画，吸引了我的注目。我喜欢旁边的四个简单的字-- “开心就好”！ 小丑外表永远是笑着的，可是却没有人了解他们心里面的内心世界，可能隐藏着一些可悲的故事。可是，他们永远都很专业，把欢笑带给大家， 逗全世界人开心！

“ 开心就好 ”

我们不管做什么，只要是对的，

对得起上天，对得起自己与良心，

每天都开开心心，开心地去做就好~

但愿我身边的每个人，每天都开心，活得开心就好~

Day 96 - 九皇爷吃斋~

九皇爷诞， 下了几天雨， 不会很大……应该是天气每年每天都在变化！今天是初五了，九月初五……如果没记错的话，今年我也算满不错的， 已经在这五天里每天都吃斋， 没有吃过肉~ 哈哈，好神奇~ 我就试试在这九天每天都吃斋，看看会不会瘦也好，灵不灵也好，保佑身边每个人都平安安康，顺顺利利就最好了~

2012 年世界末日？？ 这是一场万众期待的电影， 派头好强大，以下是它的主题曲，蛮不错！American Idol 的歌手~ Adam Lambert - Time for Miracles!

我也好想我会有一段奇迹的时间~ 把事情搞好~

Time For Miracles

Adam Lambert | MySpace Video

Day 95 - 牵手 - 苏芮

因为爱著你的爱，因为梦著你的梦

所以悲伤著你的悲伤，幸福著你的幸福

因为路过你的路，因为苦过你的苦

所以快乐著你的快乐，追逐著你的追逐

因为誓言不敢听，因为承诺不敢信

所以放心著你的沉默，去说服明天的命运

没有风雨躲得过，没有坎坷不必走

所以安心的牵你的手，不去想该不该回头

也许牵了手的手，前生不一定好走

也许有了伴的路，今生还要更忙碌

所以牵了手的手，来生还要一起走

所以有了伴的路，没有岁月可回头

~ 非常有意思的一首歌，歌词填得非常好， 赞！~

祝天下有情人百年牵手，白头偕老！

nice song~

让人陶醉的歌声~ 梁文音的歌~

Day 94 - 姑娘, 你很漂亮

生活

自自然然，简简单单，

平平凡凡，开开朗朗，

知足常乐，

人生本就那么简单！

开心生活，真的很有意思~

Day 93 - Back to Penang~ Lonely~

After a long weekend holiday, finally need to back to the busy town~ Penang...the place I'm working now~

Wrong expectation...wrong calculation...The earliest bus in the afternoon from KL to Penang is 4pm, but I reached KL Pudu about 1pm from 11am Malacca bus...

Sigh...need to wait for 3 hours for next bus...Should buy the 12 or 1pm bus from Malacca so that I can at least have my lunch before going back to Penang...

In the 3 hours, I kept walking...Walking on a busy street, still I feel that I'm alone~ So lonely~

Sitting in KFC, eating the large whipped potato as my lunch...reading newspaper to let the 3 hours pass by...

Saw this quotes and nice view from internet ads, really nice~

"If a picture says a thousand words, experiencing it leaves you speechless"

Yes, experiences are really priceless that can make you speechless~ You can only feel it when you experience it~

Day 92 - In Malacca dealing with the 2 little kids...

Running here and there...very cute and funny...really 'bong eng'...

Luckily with the Youtube ultraman clips, two of them finally sit down quietly to watch it...

but it only last for few minutes, they started demanding for ultraman toys...sweats...

Branden is so smart, he clicked the mouse and space bar to replay the clip again...haha...

Day 91 - 有多少愛可以重來

看见有人分享，就从FB抄出来了这首歌，

在巴士上想了一整晚，

我想我还是会继续地倒数，

你仍然是我不变的爱与关怀……

有多少爱可以重来？？

不等，不试， 就肯定什么都没有，

不管或多或少，

最重要还有爱的存在，

我相信我会等到的~

分了，我还是可以等你的，对吗？

The story ends~ Stop on 90 days~ 完了，分了~

So SORRY dear~ Allow me to call u dear again if any chance~

I let you free, we are both free now~ Think freely~

Break up doesn't mean end of the world~

You're right~ I'm too stubborn, standing around the corner and never move~

Calm down...Let it be...

Let the GOD and the fate decide our relationship~

Best wishes, stay healthy always~ Let me know if any problems~

分手不是世界末日~ 还有机会的……

勉强没有幸福……随缘吧！

命中注定是你的，就是你的； 不是你的，得到了也没有意义~

谢谢你陪我的这段日子……

对不起对你所做过的不对……

真心祝福，但愿你的身心健康，学业顺利，活得开心~

对不起~

Day 90 - Friday lo~ Weekend Holidays~ Going to Malacca

Friday finally comes~

Early morning, I prepared the report for my boss, then went out to the GH of Penang for blood donation for one of unknown person from a fwd mail that need A+ type blood. My colleagues were going to donate and drive me there. We need to rush there before lunch hour as the blood bank open only during office hours~ Weird right?

Previously early of the year, I was supposed to donate to my friend's mum, but my hemoglobin was too low around 11.5g/dL, only enough for my own usage..too weak...too bad....

This time, My blood hemoglobin level was alright, 14.4 g/dL where the normal range should between 12.5-18g/dL. When I weighted myself, 85.6kg -_-|| After the doctor checking, then just within 10mins, everything done!

It's ok, maybe with the good did or the kindness that we shared, the traffic was so smooth at the Green Lane area, all the way the traffic lights were green, just smoothly drive without any brake. Haha~ after the donation, then we get some Milo drinks and Fried bihun, I took the banana flavour twiggies and the Coffee Cinnamon bun as my dinner/supper in the bus at night later~

It is holiday again~ Yeah~ going to Malacca, my dear's hometown~ Here I come to conquer the food again~ :P

Dear, you are losing weight, studying hard there~ but...I'm gaining weight hard here~ ^(^@^)^ like a pig~

Day 89 - Sigh...last day for Sushi King bonanza~

Today is the last day for Sushi King bonanza~but.......Still no time and no one free to go with me~ Sien~

Nevermind, let me show some photos of food court that I visited recently, very nice environment~ Called Sungai Pinang food court near town...

Beverages counter

Lots of tables available

Nice and attractive advertisement board

BBQ Grilled Fish, chicken and vegetables

This was what I ordered - Crispy Fried Mee 江南生面

Grilled fish (Ikan bakar) that we shared together with friends~

Anyone wanna go know how to go? I can show you the way~ For sure I'll bring you my dear, the ikan pari bakar is nice~

Yeah...my blog breaks 600 views (including my own clicks ^^v)......

Day 88 - Curry fish head in Sunshine

Nice lunch at Sunshine food court with colleagues~ First time I tried the fish head curry in Penang...Looks nice right?

Not bad~

Eat with some vege~

Serving with white rice for 5 people, total only RM34. Moderate price with considered OK taste!

Can have a try again when hungry~

張棟樑 - 說你也一樣愛著我 (KTV)

为什么你 总是闷闷不乐

你知不知道 你是最好的

这首歌 我唱这首歌 就是要给你快乐

世界上只有你独一无二

我为你添上幸福的颜色

这首歌 我唱这首歌 你要专心的听着

说你一样爱着我

说你也一样爱着我

有一个温暖角落 那是我心窝

把你的爱收起来 放进我的口袋

不让你轻易离开

我会永远爱着你

到老还是同一句 因为我珍惜

轻轻地摇着篮椅 带着老花眼镜

还记得我们这首歌 这首歌

还记得我们这首歌

说你也一样的爱着我~

~ 别再闷闷不乐乐，听首歌让自己开心下吧! 要活得开心，人才会更漂亮哦 ~

有些事，一转身就是一辈子

这是很好的分享，

我要好好地珍惜我们的遇见、一起走过的日子、一起经历的事情~

有些事，一转身就是一辈子，要珍惜身边的人~

Day 87 - Busy with works~ Need support!

Wow...really busy with loaded works...yet still having spare time to update blogs everyday~

Feel quite packed with the time, yet something cheers me up, nice quote from my friend's MSN status:-

"一个月亮一个你，二个影子我和你，三生有幸认识你，四个西施不如你"

Specially for you, my dear~

This quote really make my day~ make me think of my dear~ Missing her so much~

She must be busy with her assignments, already 2 days not chatting...Looking forward...

懂得什麼時候不要說話，是一種智慧。

每個戀人和每個家庭都會遇到的經濟上的危機。

如果你的家人精明一世、糊塗一時，運氣不好被倒會，或為朋友作保受牽連，你當然也會跟著不開心，
但懂的相處之道的人，自然得避免在這時製造雙方的裂痕，不該有話直說的埋怨道：
「我早就知道，你這麼貪財一定會遭到報應！」
或
「我早就告訴你那個人不可靠了,你偏要相信他，這下好了吧，知道我的話是對的了吧？」
這些話比直截了當罵「你這個白癡！」更難聽。
這時候沉默是最好的支持，其實犯錯者本身必然從失敗中的到教訓，不必再送給他一頓鞭子。

對方在度過難關以後，會終身感激你的支持。
甚至，你什麼都沒做，他也會對你感激涕零的。

懂得什麼時候不要說話，是一種智慧。
當朋友也是一樣。
在別人哀慟欲絕的時候，你還要追根究底， 就像人家的傷疤好不容易在結痂，你還來撥人家的痂。
最好的安慰是無言的微笑，和傾聽。

有智慧的父母也是孩子福份。
在英國遊學的時候，住宿家庭隔壁就住了一對很有智慧的夫妻。
他們剛好度過七年之癢。
有一次我在院子看書，目睹隔壁院子發生的事情。
布朗先生正在教他五歲的兒子安迪使用剪草機，父子兩剪得正高興時，父親進門去接電話。
接著我看到一幕慘劇；
五歲的安迪把剪草機推向父親最愛的鬱金香花園，不一會，已經有兩公尺長的花圃糟殃。
布朗先生出來，鐵青著一張臉。眼看他的拳頭已經高高的舉起......
忽然，布朗太太出來了，她看見滿目狼藉的花圃，馬上知明白發生了什麼事。
她小聲、溫柔地對先生笑道：「喂，我們現在人生最大的幸福是養孩子，不是在養鬱金香。」
三秒鐘後，他們交換一個吻，一切歸於平靜。

我把這個故事告訴好友，她是個家庭主婦。後來她告訴我，很感激我跟她說這個故事。

「以前孩子打破東西，我少不了罵他兩聲，現在我會告訴自己，對我重要的是孩子，不是碗。
哪個小孩在成長過程不會打破東西呢？」

情緒智商高的人懂得分輕重。
如果你真的珍視感情的價值，就該懂得在他倒霉的時候施小惠。

也許我們都沒有聰明到「一句解千愁」的地步。

但傾聽卻是人人做得到的施恩行為。
傾聽，常比替他義憤填膺或替他擔起一切聰明一百倍。

Day 86 - Monday back to work~

Yesterday back from work on Sunday 9pm....then today wake up at 8am plus, too tiring...

Just with 12hours duration, I'm backed to lab again for work today~

Looking forward this weekend holidays~

Wanna relax awhile...

Just bought the bus ticket to Malacca for this coming weekend Deepavali holidays~ sigh..no ticket from Malacca back to Penang on Monday leh, so I have to buy ticket to KL and transfered bus from KL to Penang...

Quite boring of working, tiring now~

Never mind, think positively, work positively, results will eventually positively returned...

今日苦，明日甜，明日幸福靠今天！

有目标的前进，我们一定会成功的~ 加油！

好优美的经典名句~ Nice quotes~

好优美的经典名句~ Nice quotes~

世界上最遥远的距离, 不是生与死, 而是我就站在你面前...你却不知道我爱你.

世界上最遥远的距离, 不是我就站在你面前,你却不知道我爱你, 而是...明明知道彼此相爱...却不能在一起.

世界上最遥远的距离, 不是明明知道彼此相爱,却不能在一起, 而是...明明无法抵挡这股思念...却还得故意装作丝毫没有把你放在心里.

世界上最遥远的距离, 不是明明无法抵挡这股思念,却还得故意装作丝毫没有把你放在心里 而是...用自己"冷漠的心"对爱你的人掘了一条无法逾越的沟渠... ~泰戈尔~

The furthest distance in the world，Is not between life and death. But when I stand in front of you，Yet you don't know that I love you ~Tagore，Rabindranath~

曾经我梦见我们彼此是陌生人，但是在现实当中我们是彼此深爱着对方

Once we dreamt that we were strangers. We wake up to find that we were dear to each other.

　　

我的心是旷野的鸟，在你的眼睛里找到了它的天空。

My heart, the bird of the wilderness, has found its sky in your eyes.

它是大地的泪点，使她的微笑保持着青春不谢。

It is the tears of the earth that keep her smiles in bloom.

如果你因失去了太阳而流泪，那么你也失去了群星。

If you shed tears when you miss the sun, you also miss the stars.

你看不见你自己，你所看见的只是你的影子。

What you are you do not see, what you see is your shadow.

瀑布歌唱道："当我找到了自己的自由时,我找到了我的歌。"

The waterfall sing, "I find my song, when I find my freedom."

　　

你微微地笑着，不同我说什么话。而我觉得，为了这个，我已等待得久了。

You smiled and talked to me of nothing and I felt that for this I had been waiting long.

Day 85 - Sunday back to lab~

WalaoA....Sien lo... Need to go back to lab to work on Sunday~ waseh....

While waiting for the results, just look see look see the forum and copy paste out these info~

天蠍座 - 寶劍一
愛情是一心一意。 ****
既然你已經決定了，那麼喜歡或不喜歡，該怎麼做或不該怎麼做，都不用再多考慮。只要你願意大膽地跨出第一步，結局應該就會是好的。

行星能量：单身族若一直独来独往不在意情感归属的，这三天更加突出独立性，比较讨厌被不知轻重好歹的异性缠身，比较厌恶被长辈亲友苦劝威逼结婚，恨不得远远逃离他们直至逃到外太空，若是才从一段晕呼呼的关系里出来的则出现时而厌弃时而留恋反复交叉变更（多以前者为主）的情形，雄性生物和雌性生物那点事儿不过是脑下垂体的杰作，真不该投放过多精力，建设祖国还需要你的贡献呢；恋情男女碰坎了，浪漫因素全抹消，剩下的都是对现实的疑惧，一方甚至忽然对另一方的江山易改秉性难移心灰意懒，记住无论什么时候都别让自己陷入空洞的郁结。财运方面，三大腐败行星打劫金库，焉能不破财？多有多破，少有少破；投资运方面，资金流通可能有些许紧张，导致你不敢盲目张狂地砸钱。事业方面，目下的天象非常眷顾你，不辛苦不艰辛不曲折不晦暗，能歇则歇别累着。

需要牢记的：树木自然而然朝阳生长，人也该朝真善美靠近
需要注意的：你所遇见的每一个人实际上都是你的缩影
贵人星座：摩羯座
小心的星座：白羊座

射手座 - 聖杯七
愛情是夢幻泡影。 ***
像是面對水中倒影，確實看得到，但卻不敢伸手去碰觸，怕幻影一碰就
會消失。不用擔心，掌握你真正能掌握的部分，一切自然不會是問題。

行星能量：土星和天王联袂夹攻轰炸，职场上可能有突发事件（多半是违背你的意愿或逻辑的），以射手的能力应付起来绰绰有余，就是心里会有点儿不爽罢了，何况冥王也来加油添醋，一个原则性过强反对花拳绣腿，一个火爆冲动不念后果，一个厌恶现状不甘于目前的作为，结合着看，横竖着看，当下虽然没有改变的机会，但是说不定因此促进你另谋打算（已经累积了一定基础的人士才能为更上一层楼造阶梯），尚未准备好的人士则徒受苦恼围困（不妨物色合适的进修课程）。财运方面，水星跟冥王之间到底有些纠纷，希望财务问题不致扰乱你的心境；投资运方面，行星的限制使你看一步走一步甚至思虑过多而走不出半步，赚钱自然是赚不多的。感情方面，桃花无着落的情形下，单身族高楼望月独自逍遥就好了；爱人们要颇费些脑筋平复心中的疑虑，以及减少对对方的计较，否则会自残乃至残人。

需要牢记的：爱之所以无法持续，大多因为自己不认识自己
需要注意的：笑天下可笑之人，同时，容天下难容之事
贵人星座：双鱼座
小心的星座：水瓶座

Nothing gonna change my love for you~